At Years End…What’s Next???
Love in 2009
As 2009 came rolling around, I looked back and thought about what had happened this past year. I thank God for all he’s done for me in the year 2008. The loving family that he has provided for me, and great friends who have been there since the beginning. I look back at 2008 and there’s nothing I would have changed. If I would have changed something, then I wouldn’t be who I am today. Something would be different, and who knows whether it would have been good or bad.
Graduating with a BS in finance
May 20, 2008: 3 years at PCC, 2 years and a summer session at CSUN. It took 5 years and a summer session but I FINALLY graduated from college. It was a tough road for me, not knowing what major to go in to, and when I finally found one, I knew it wasn’t right for me. But for me to say that I had finally finished school and received my bachelor’s degree is something I am very proud of. School was very very tough, but I feel accomplished that I was able to finish. There were moments when I believed I wouldn’t be able to finish. I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do for the rest of my life (and I’m still not sure) and because of that I just wanted to give up. But I had a handful of GREAT friends at PCC and CSUN that helped me get through all the years. Hilary, Hut, Melanie, Kate, and Kendra truly made my college experience worth wild. I know I could have gone another direction in my college path. I could have gone to a university at the very beginning and dorm, and may have met many more people instead of commuting home for 5 years. But this was the path that God had chosen for me and I can’t complain about it. Now that I’m out of college, I’m pretty sure that I do not want to pursue a future in finance. So if God’s plan for my future requires me to go back to school, I’m totally open for it and I’m willing to go again. But for the time being, graduating this year was a big step in my life. Also I can’t begin to express how much I appreciate all who showed up. Originally I thought it would just be my immediate family, but when I looked over from the graduates, and saw mom, dad, Melanie, Des, Glenna, Gloria, Josh, Jose, Robert, and Slim, I couldn’t help but smile. Thanks all for making this a wonderful day.
Vision Tour 2008: Serbia
July 15 – August 6, 2008: This year was my 8th year in Vision. Second straight year we went to Serbia for our summer mission’s trip. I cannot express how lucky I am to have had the chance to travel with Vision and share God’s word with people. How many people do you know can say that they’ve been to Serbia? Better yet, how many Asian Americans do you know??? Overall God put Vision in my life and has opened my eyes to the world and has given me a heart for them. 2001: Philippines. 2002: Cambodia. 2003: Canada. 2004: China. 2005: Philippines. 2006: Thailand 2007: Serbia. and once again Serbia this year. It was such a blessing to be able to serve with the same people from the Serbian church. Sarah, Tamara, Tanja, Marija, Misha, Do, Ivan, and Alex. It was SO good seeing all of you once again. In 2007 I knew we would see each other again some time. And God chose this year as the best time. It was an even bigger blessing getting to know them and having them travel with us. The Vision team this year was EXCELLENT! I feel like everyone got along and it was just such a wonderful experience. Even though most of the team was younger in age, I believe we all learned so much and this summer’s trip is something we can take and live our lives with. Brian, Cynthia, Stephanie, Glenna, Joe, Mike, Jaspher, Josh, Brandon, Eric, J9, Slim, Long, Fiona, CZ, Alex, Melanie, Justin and Keiko, thank you all for making this summer’s trip something to always remember. I really enjoyed traveling with you and doing God’s work with all of you. Even though I have decided not to join vision in 2009, I know God still has a ministry plan for me. I am open to whatever doors He will open for me. I’m not saying my Vision years are over (I still have a certain John Ngai record that everyone thinks I’m going to pursue). But as for this year, God will open something else for me. If He’s calling me back to Vision in future years, then it’s Vision that I will join again. But my life is certainly in His hands. His hands are the hands that hold the world.
Disneyland
December 02, 2007 – December 2, 2008: I never ever thought that in my lifetime I would ever buy a Disneyland annual pass. And believe it or not, even though I started dating Glenna, it wasn’t her idea for me to buy a pass. It was my sister Melanie that brought up the idea and thought it would be fun for me to buy a pass. And let me just say, now that I have had a pass for year, I don’t think I can ever go any year WITHOUT one. This year has been such a MAGICAL year. It helped that I had friends who LOVED Disneyland with all their hearts, and that allowed me to fall in love with such a magical land. It was great going there at 8pm with Glenna just to watch the firework show…twice a week =). It was nice of Gloria and Mike to invite me to join them right after I had finished a hard final. Disneyland was the place where I met my Jonas family. I believe I grew closer to Kim Cheng and Justin Lau because of Disneyland. I also got to meet the famous Baby V through Disneyland. The three of them plus, Glenna and myself make up of the Jonas family, a family that knows how to have a fun and wonderful time. Disneyland was the place where I had THE BEST scavenger hunt in the world. Gloria/Dillon’s extravaganza scavenger hunt. Some might say that the final count to determine the winner was a bit questionable =D. But now we all look back at that and laugh about how much fun we had. Thank you all for joining and participating =). Team Jonas VS. the others….Gloria, Josh, Melanie, Mai, Peter and Debbie. And a BIG thanks to Mike for officiating it. As for other Disneyland memories, who needs clubbing when you can dance to ‘get low’ in front of the castle with Justin, Kim, Echo and Glenna. Or who can forget our famous DREAM picture on Tower of Terror with Ellison, Lisa, Kim, Justin and myself. Or meeting up with Tim, Echo, Kim, and T MONEY (Tiff) on Easter Sunday. Then there was that day when we brought all three Chioy siblings, Brian, Brandon and Amanda with us to Disneyland. That day we met up with Melanie, George, Kim, Baby V, Ellison and Justin. We all got on Tower of Terror and prayed for Josh as we went down. We witnessed first hand that prayer does work because Josh was able to survive to drop. But the best time at Disneyland is every single time I got to spend it with Glenna. And trust me, we went all the time, whenever we were like, what should we do?? Disneyland it was. Thank you Glenna for showing me the ropes to the park and making me fall in love with the magic kingdom. So many things happened and can happen in Disneyland. I’m so excited for another year there and I’m looking forward to what magic it brings in 2009. Who’s ready to go and have fun again???
Having the best Girlfriend ever!
January 19, 2008 – Present: I know its very cliché for a guy to say they have the best girlfriend ever, but I honestly believe it. I have someone who cares a lot about me and will put others in front of herself. I have someone who accepts me for who I am, and who I am may not always be who I appear to be. I have someone who will love me despite of my flaws and my failures. I have someone who is always happy to hear my voice and who can sit with me in front of a TV and say it was time well spent =). It will be our one year anniversary in about a week and a half from this blog. And I gotta say it’s been the best year ever. Lets start from the beginning, Melanie and Gloria are pretty good friends and for as long as I can remember, they’ve been trying to hook me and Glenna up. I would always deny it thinking that Glenna was too cool for me =D. Well we started hanging out towards the end of 2007 and I guess we hit it off. Or at least I’d like to think we hit it off =). She may disagree and say that I was just ‘alright’ and I was just a friend. But she continued to hang out with me and I started to see that maybe our sisters were right. I ended 2007 by ASKING Glenna that I liked her. That may not make any sense right now, but you can ask her and she’ll gladly explain what I mean.
Anyways, on Saturday January 19th, I decided to ask Glenna to be my girlfriend because I realized that I wanted to spend more time with her and I wanted to learn more and grow closer to her. Well this year has been such a good year to us. We have learned so much from each other and we’ve learned to grow with each other. We’ve also had so so many adventures. Where do I begin? All of our Disneyland adventures, delicious dinings like Houstons, The Melting Pot, and that place we double dated with Tim and Echo. Unfortunately I forgot the name but that had some pretty sweet crème brule. This was also the year that I’ve been exposed to the most dancing ever. Ever since Glenna made Pac Modern in Spring, I’ve been going to her practices and a few of her competitions. I would just like to say it’s SOOO cool dating a dancer like her =D. Not to mention it makes me look cool. Hahaha. As Glenna’s friend Mary would say, ‘you’re girlfriend is so HOT.’ But I gotta say it’s been such a good experience going to these competitions and watching other dance crews get down! Of course I do have to say Pac Modern beats them all =D Other adventures worth mentioning this year include her clinical trial, where she made some $$$!!!! Glenna showing me around Cerritos, and my first exposure to Boiling Crab…I’d have to say my boiling crab count is now at 6, oh that place is GOOD!!! Americana, Mario Kart, Tetris, dressing like Colts players, Photo shoots, Batman and Batgirl (or Batman and Robin to some people), July 4th, Starbucks, 24, Lost, Grey’s, Gushers, Smorgasborg, Superbowl Sunday, Better than Homework cake, in n out softball tournament, the endless nights going to KT and JJ’s, and Singapore. The list goes on and on. So many memories with Glenna during 2008. memories that I will always remember and memories that I am very thankful for. Thank you babe for the best year ever. I love you and I always will.
And of course by dating Glenna comes 2 wonderful people who have been so kind to me this year. I would like to show my appreciation to Mike and Gloria for being so hospitable to me and for allowing me to come over anytime. If there’s anyone who can say how much I’ve been over it’s definitely them. I have enjoyed all the times we have all gone out to eat, or whenever Mike cooks….oh he makes some of the most delicious food ever!!! Whenever Mike is bbqing steak, I’ll be over in a heartbeat =). As for Gloria, she has given me the permission to come over anytime and I just appreciate how much she accepts me as well. This past year has been so much easier due to the love that Mike and Glo has showed me. I don’t know what I would do without them.
Family
There’s not much I can say here because of course my family will always be on the top of my list. My dad and I don’t always see eye to eye, actually for the most part our relationship is fist to fist. But deep down inside I know how much he has sacrificed for this family. I know how much he cares, and whenever he gets mad at us, it’s only because he cares so much. My mom and my dad both so endless love to this family, they just have their own way of expressing it. My dad shows love by anger (which isn’t always a bad thing) and my mom shows love by doing things we never ask for. As for my sisters, I believe I have slowly been growing further and further apart from my oldest sister Desiree. It’s not as bad as it sounds especially since we were never close growing up. She has her own career now and I cannot be any happier for her. For how successful she has become and I wish her the best of luck in her future. I actually take a lot of pride in telling my friends about her. They ask what my sisters do, and I am more than happy to say that my oldest sister is a successful OT. As for our relationship, it’s more of a ‘hi’ ‘bye’ relationship, but as for the time being, that’s fine with me. She deserves the best. And for the other sister…Melanie, words cannot describe how important she is to me. Melanie is my best friend. Many of our friends make fun of our friendship, and how close we are. But I think they’re just jealous =D. I’m glad I have a sister I can relate to, talk to, turn to, play with, laugh with, and fight with. That’s right; we still fight from time to time. But the next day we’re laughing again and going to Tommy’s at 1 in the morning. She’s the best sister anyone can ask for I believe. Sometimes I think about how far apart Des and I are, but I think it’s all equalized with my relationship with Mel. I love my family. Like most families, we may not see eye to eye, but God has blessed me with these people and I will not ever take that for granted.
I’m looking forward to 2009. I’m looking forward to what it brings. I’m looking forward to where God puts me in life, whether it’s a new career, or back in school, or exactly where I am now. I’m looking forward to see what new adventures I will be a part of. I’m looking forward to my relationship with Glenna and seeing how we will continue to grow. I’m looking forward to time spent with friends, friends I will always love. We’ll see….Love in 2009.
10 things I want to accomplish in 2009
Here is a list of 10 things I want to accomplish in 2009. There is no specific order to these. I would just like to either work on it, or actually accomplish it.
10.) Learn to play piano chords
09.) Create a Huang family tree
08.) Plan a Trip outside of California with a friend
07.) Buy a mac book OR an iMac
06.) Write a song (music and lyrics)
05.) Start a band
04.) Find another job
03.) Go back to school (only if required by a new job)
02.) Consistenely Blog
01.) Grow Closer to God
Now for my ANNUAL countdowns
MOVIES
I’m going to start with Movies. Some may say I have a lot of movies in my room, but that doesn’t necessarily mean I watch a lot of movies. I’m sure many people may not agree with my top 10 movies of 2008, but I have to inform you that these are just movies that I’ve seen this past year. There may or may not have been better movies, but if I didn’t see them, I couldn’t rank them. So there you have it, my 10 favorite movies of 2008 that I was able to see (and the date they were released).
10.) Cloverfield – January 18
09.) Sex and the City – May 30
08.) Vantage Point – February 22
07.) High School Musical 3 – October 24
06.) Chronicles of Narnia: Prince Caspian – May 16
05.) Kung Foo Panda – June 6
04.) The Incredible Hulk – June 13
03.) Get Smart – June 20
02.) Iron Man – May 2
01.) The Dark Knight – July 18
ALBUMS
These are my top 10 albums of 2008. This is more of a variation of different types of genres. You have your Metal, Screamo, R&B, Alternative, Hip Hop etc. Let me just say this about my number 1. Melanie and I looked long and hard for decent concert tickets at a decent price. We even tried calling Kroq for like a week straight trying to win tickets. Unfortunately the cheapest tickets we found were all over $100 and we weren’t sure if we were willing to spend that much for them. Here are my top 10 Albums of 2008 (and the date they were released).
10.) Norma Jean – The AntiMother – August 5
09.) Akon – Freedom – November 25
08.) Rise Against – Appeal To Reason – October 7
07.) Fall Out Boy – Folie A Deux – December 16
06.) Kanye West – 808’s and Heartbreaks – November 24
05.) Underoath – Lost In The Sound of Seperation – September 2
04.) Disturbed – Indestructible – June 3
03.) Anberlin – New Surrender – September 30
02.) Scars on Broadway – Scars on Broadway – July 29
01.) Coldplay – Viva La Vida – June 17
SONGS
This is the BIG one! This will be my 5th annual song countdown. I started this countdown in 2004. I counted down my favorite 150 songs of the year. The first 3 years I posted the countdown on my xanga site, and it consisted of 150 songs. In 2007 I counted down my favorite 100 songs and posted it on wordpress and I made a note on facebook. This year, I’ve decided to add 10 bonus songs so I thought I’d countdown my favorite 110 songs of 2008. Again, this is my own opinion so you may or may not agree. But all these songs were played and released on the radio sometime in 2008. The main stations I listen to are Kiis, Kroq, and Power. So these songs made an appearance on these stations, and I only include songs on the radio. If you would to hear the actual countdown, feel free to visit my itunes, for all 110 songs are available.
Dylon’s Top 110 of 2008
Top 110 songs of 2008
110.) Kevin Rudolf – Let It Rock
109.) Katy Perry – Hot N Cold
108.) Armor For Sleep – Hold The Door
107.) Jim Jones – Pop Champagne
106.) Lil Wayne – Lollipop
105.) Nine Inch Nails – Discipline
104.) Timbaland feat. Justin Timberlake – Elevator
103.) Foo Figthers – Summer’s End
102.) Metro Station – Shake It
101.) Hinder – Better Than Me
100.) T-Pain – Chopped and Screwed
099.) Plies – Shawty
098.) Madonna feat. Justin Timberlake – Four Minutes to Save the World
097.) Atreyu – Falling Down
096.) Usher – Love In This Club
095.) Webbie – Independent
094.) Nelly feat. Fergie – Party People
093.) Natasha Bedingfield feat. Sean Kingston – Love Like This
092.) Janet Jackson – Feedback
091.) Death Cab For Cutie – Cath…
090.) Staind – All I Want
089.) Rihanna – Take A Bow
088.) Ray J – Sexy Can I
087.) Panic! At The Disco – 9 In The Afternoon
086.) Snow Patrol – Crack The Shutters
085.) Coldplay – Lost!
084.) Shinedown – Second Chance
083.) Flo Rida – In The Ayer
082.) Linkin Park – In Pieces
081.) Beyonce – Single Ladies
080.) Plies feat. Ne-Yo – Bust It Baby Pt. 2
079.) MGMT – Time To Pretend
078.) Mariah Carey – Touch My Body
077.) One Day As A Lion – Wild International
076.) Leona Lewis – Better In Time
075.) Natasha Bedingfield – Pocket Full of Sunshine
074.) Rise Against – Re Education (Through Labor)
073.) Slightly Stoopid – 2AM
072.) David Banner – Get Like Me
071.) Kanye West – Homecoming
070.) Hollywood Undead – Undead
069.) Three 6 Mafia – Lolli Lolli
068.) 10 Years – Beautiful
067.) Christina Aguilera – Keeps Getting Better
066.) Ne-Yo – Because of You
065.) T.I – Whatever You Like
064.) Colby O’Donis feat. Akon – What You Got
063.) Avenged Sevenfold – Almost Easy
062.) Jimmy Eat World – Always Be
061.) Lil Wayne feat. Bobby Valentino – Mrs. Officer
060.) Katy Perry – I Kissed A Girl
059.) Jonas Brothers – Burnin Up
058.) The Pussycat Dolls – When I Grow Up
057.) The Airborne Toxic Event – Sometime Around Midnight
056.) Jordan Sparks feat. Chris Brown – No Air
055.) Paramore – Decode
054.) Brandy – Right Here
053.) Fall Out Boy – Beat It
052.) The Offspring – You’re Gonna Go Far Kid
051.) Jesse McCartney – Leavin
050.) Scars On Broadway – They Say
049.) Danity Kane – Damaged
048.) Mariah Carey – Bye Bye
047.) Coldplay – Lovers In Japan
046.) T.I feat. Rihanna – Live Your Life
045.) Taylor Swift – Love Story
044.) Ludacris – What Them Girls Like
043) Britney Spears – Circus
042.) The Game feat. Lil Wayne – My Life
041.) Foo Fighters – Let It Die
040.) Rise Against – Ready To Fall
039.) Leona Lewis – Bleeding Love
038.) Linkin Park – The Little Things Give You Away
037.) Miley Cirus – See You Again
036.) Estelle feat. Kanye West – American Boy
035.) Pennywise – The Western World
034.) E-40 feat. Akon – Wake It Up
033.) The Pussycat Dolls – I Hate This Part Right Now
032.) Britney Spears – Womanizer
031.) Bone Thugs N Harmony feat. Akon – I Tried
030.) John Legend feat. Andre 3000 – Green Light
029.) T-Pain – Can’t Believe It
028.) Lil Wayne – A Milli
027.) Rise Against – The Approaching Curve
026.) Beyonce – If I Were A Boy
025.) Rihanna – Rehab
024.) Lil Wayne – Got Money
023.) Kanye West – Love Lockdown
022.) The Killers – Human
021.) Kardinal Offishall feat. Akon – Dangerous
020.) Rihanna – Disturbia
019.) Flobots – Handlebars
018.) MIA – Paper Planes
017.) Lady Gaga feat. Colby O’Donis – Just Dance
016.) Ne-Yo – Miss. Independent
015.) Death Cab For Cutie – I Will Possess Your Heart
014.) Disturbed – Inside The Fire
013.) Kings of Leon – Sex On Fire
012.) Kanye West – Heartless
011.) Akon – Right Now (Na Na)
The 10 BEST songs of 2008
010.) Chris Brown – Forever
009.) Scars on Broadway – World Long Gone
008.) Slipknot – Psychosocial
007.) Coldplay – Violet Hill
006.) The Offspring – Hammerhead
005.) Rise Against – Audience of One
004.) Akon – Beautiful
003.) Linkin Park – Hands Held High
002.) Coldplay – Viva La Vida
001.) Ne-Yo – Closer






















